Archive for January, 2009

The dreadful day…

January 25th, 2009

The moment I dreaded the most has arrived. But I think I handled it quite well, in the sense that I am calm and rational (most of the time :p).

Anyway, a few days has passed since the unfortunate incident, and I am still ALIVE! God bless me. I think I will be able to live well, if not better. Although sometimes I will still think of the happier times, but it has passed now. Everything is history now.

It’s up to me to make the most of my life now. Sometimes I really think I am in a deja vu situation. Everything happened so fast, its like a dream. Or maybe a nightmare. It doesn’t matter now.  The only thing that matters now is me, myself and I.

-Lost confidence-

Staying static in my comfort zone

January 18th, 2009

Do not resist changes when changes is necesary. Very true, I think. But is it really as easy as it seems? Of course, we all know that people who can easily adapt to changes are people who can survive in this tough society. But it is always easier said than done. Sometimes it is not us unwilling to change, but it is just too easy to stay static.

Comfort zone, people call it. I have been too comfortable these days. Resulting in me unable to cope when it is necesary.

Nevertheless, I know I will have to accept and adapt when it is time. No matter how unwilling I am.

世界上最遥远的距离

January 18th, 2009

世界上最遥远的距离,
不是生与死,
而是我就站在你面前,你却不知道我爱你。

世界上最遥远的距离,
不是我就站在你面前,你却不知道我爱你,
而是明明知道彼此相爱,却不能在一起。

世界上最遥远的距离,
不是明明知道彼此相爱,却不能在一起,
而是明明无法抵挡这股想念,
却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里。

世界上最遥远的距离,
不是明明无法抵挡这股想念,
却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里,
而是用自己冷漠的心对爱你的人,
掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠。

^ ^

What makes a good BF?

January 12th, 2009

(Quoted from my ‘brother’, have to acknowledge him, otherwise he will sue me for pliagarism)

So, this is the question for the day, “What makes a good BF?”

Is he someone who is caring? Or someone who is good looking? Or maybe someone who is rich?

I am sure each and everyone of us will have a different interpretation of a good boyfriend. I am not trying to get an exact answer here too. I just wanted to make my point that, it does not matter that you think you are not a good boyfriend, as long as your girl loves you. We really need to comprehend the fact that nobody is perfect.

After all, you are not getting married to yourself.

My Guardian, My Angel

January 11th, 2009

I have a guardian angel. Well, all of us have one. But most of the people are not aware of the existance of their guardian angel.

Lucky me, I found mine easily.

He is the one going through my ups and downs with me, never once deserted me, and tried all his might to make me who I am today.

I may not remember everything he said to me, but I will never forget this;

我是唯一一个和你不同姓名和没有血缘关系可是还是会永远支持你的人

^^

(守护着我的天使,谢谢你!)

Thoughts??

January 11th, 2009

Human beings are really interesting. We are so luckily blessed with brains, but more often than not, we misused it.

You see, the main reason I said so is because majority of the people around me tends to think negatively. You can simply throw a stone a hit a pessimist by my side.

So my question is, what is it that make us people think so much? Aren’t we ourselves the master of our minds? If that is true, then why is it that we are unable to control our own thoughts?

We all know the theory of half-glass full and half-glass empty of water, but are we really practising it? Research has shown that if we think of a positive thought everyday, once we wake up, the day would surely be better. But how many people would do that?

This leads me to another question. Is it really so hard to think of a positive or happy thought to ease your day? Why do we tend to assume the worst out of a situation? Some may argue that the more we hope for the best, the more disappointed we will be. Yes, to a certain extend it is true, but where will we be without hope?

I believe that disappointment will eventually lead to improvement. And this is my positive thought of the day. : )

(This post is specially dedicated to a special friend; if you are reading this, I hope you would try to think positively)

Commitment-phobic Heterosexual

January 4th, 2009

“Commitment -phobic Heterosexual” – I read an interesting article regarding this topic recently. It seems that the world is getting more populated by this race of human beings. Let me explain briefly what is the characteristics of commitment- phobic heterosexual first. The most significant ones are;

1. they are sexually attracted to the opposite sex

2. they are afraid of commitment

3. deep down, they are insecure in relationship

4. they enjoy their freedom dearly and would not want to lose it

So, my question is, are the society ready to accept this trend created by those commitment-phobic heterosexuals? By saying this trend, I am referring to the dreaded ‘M’ word that are constantly avoided by those commitment-phobic heterosexuals.

This lead me to ponder; is it really so hard to utter out the L word in this new era? What is the real meaning of the L word to our society nowadays? As I write this, I am doubting myself, in doubt whether I can really say out the word sincerely, without hesistation to the ones I love? I am not sure. Perhaps it is because of this unsureness that cause the emergence of this so-called commitment-phobic heterosexual in our society.

Probably it is time someone set a new trend for the society to follow…?