Archive for the ‘Heart or Head?’ category

幸福不是必然的

September 1st, 2010

幸福不是必然的。

这一分钟你拥有,下一秒可能你就会失去。

好好珍惜眼前人,不要后悔了才埋怨。。。。

遗憾

July 29th, 2010

你是我的过去, 我这一辈子的遗憾….

事隔那么久了,为何你在这个时候回来? 为何突然问起我,关心我?

我已有了我的未来,但是…..但是你的出现…让’我的心荒了……

你只可以是我曾有过的美好回忆. 我不该想太多了.

我要我的未来!!

我要我的幸福!!

笑我笨。。。

April 25th, 2009

原来,我一直等待的只是空气。原来,我在好久好久以前就已经失去。

他在好久以前就已经停止给我希望,只是我一直都宁愿选择盲目,选择不去听。

为什么会让我遇见他?为什么我会选择相信他?

是因为我笨。。。连我的影子都笑我笨。。。。

这次,我真的该死心了!!!

The lesson learnt….

February 1st, 2009

So many lessons are learnt everyday. But one particular incident stays fresh in my mind all the time. This is the turning point in my life, whereby I really grow a lot after that incident.

I know a lot of people are worried (and angry) at me at that time, but I am really fine now. I have paid my time, therefore I have grown up, and grown out of that critical situation.

The price of this lesson is actually much more greater than I can afford, but nevertheless, the harm is already done, and I have to live with it. One thing I am sure, and I have to make sure (cause I have promised the so many people who loved me) I will not fall prey into that kind of trap again.

I am in control of my life now.

The dreadful day…

January 25th, 2009

The moment I dreaded the most has arrived. But I think I handled it quite well, in the sense that I am calm and rational (most of the time :p).

Anyway, a few days has passed since the unfortunate incident, and I am still ALIVE! God bless me. I think I will be able to live well, if not better. Although sometimes I will still think of the happier times, but it has passed now. Everything is history now.

It’s up to me to make the most of my life now. Sometimes I really think I am in a deja vu situation. Everything happened so fast, its like a dream. Or maybe a nightmare. It doesn’t matter now.  The only thing that matters now is me, myself and I.

-Lost confidence-

Staying static in my comfort zone

January 18th, 2009

Do not resist changes when changes is necesary. Very true, I think. But is it really as easy as it seems? Of course, we all know that people who can easily adapt to changes are people who can survive in this tough society. But it is always easier said than done. Sometimes it is not us unwilling to change, but it is just too easy to stay static.

Comfort zone, people call it. I have been too comfortable these days. Resulting in me unable to cope when it is necesary.

Nevertheless, I know I will have to accept and adapt when it is time. No matter how unwilling I am.

What makes a good BF?

January 12th, 2009

(Quoted from my ‘brother’, have to acknowledge him, otherwise he will sue me for pliagarism)

So, this is the question for the day, “What makes a good BF?”

Is he someone who is caring? Or someone who is good looking? Or maybe someone who is rich?

I am sure each and everyone of us will have a different interpretation of a good boyfriend. I am not trying to get an exact answer here too. I just wanted to make my point that, it does not matter that you think you are not a good boyfriend, as long as your girl loves you. We really need to comprehend the fact that nobody is perfect.

After all, you are not getting married to yourself.