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Love is blind (and the heart is blind too)

July 15th, 2010

I have a best friend.  He is a nice guy actually.

But recently, he did something that even I couldn’t really comprehend.

He broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years. For another girl.

And his new girl is not even half as nice, or beautiful or intelligent as his ex girlfriend.

I asked him, “what you see in her?”

He just shrugged. He do not know the answer himself.

Then I ask again, “what about your ex?”

“I know I hurt her, I can only apologize for breaking her heart.”

Hurt her, he say.  She is beyond hurt! Even though I don’t know her very well (just an acquaintance), but I know that she is not fine at all.

Her facebook comments, her msn display message all betrayed her.

It is a pity seeing her like this. You see, she is one of the nicest girl I have ever known. She is smart, funny and have such a big heart. She is not even mad at my best friend for breaking her heart.

So I took up my courage and tell her, he doesn’t deserve you.

And she sighed. She did not cry, she did not shout, she did not try to change the topic. She just sighed.

As much as she is not willing to, she let him go.

And yet, he have the nerve to put his photo with his new girl on Facebook. With her sitting on his lap! He knew well enough that his ex would surely and curiously go and view that photo of them.

I do not know what to do with this friend anymore. I hate him now, I admit it.

I just couldn’t stand him being so unfair and inconsiderate to his ex.

But I guess love is blind.

The Wedding

July 12th, 2009

I went to the wedding dinner with a heavy heart. I guessed it is because it was raining so heavily yesterday, and I really don’t feel like going out and get wet all over. Another part of me feels awkward because I have not met them for so long,and haven’t really bothered to keep in touch.

Anyway, I went as I have promised the ’star’ and despite the heavy rain, I have to admit I really enjoyed the night!

Everyone seems so different, and yet, I have a feeling that we have never really been apart. Even though they have changed a lot, the familiarity is still there. I still feel close to them as they were so many years ago. We still act like a bunch of silly kids, and you can imagine the night full of giggles and laughters.

We talked a lot about our school days, and all of us couldn’t believe that we are all grown up and one of us had actually gotten married. That makes us feel old, I guess.

Anyhow, I am really glad that Chong has found himself a good wife, and I do hope that he will cherish his marriage.

And I will cherish all my friends too.

 

the gals having fun~

知己

April 26th, 2009

原来,我并没有什么知己。 心情不好,想找个人诉苦都没有。。越想就越觉得很可悲~pathetic.

我什么时候开始失去了我的所有好朋友??也不可以说失去,只是工作越忙,就越少联络。渐渐的,感情就越淡了。。。

我是一个不好相处的人,我承认。称呼人少,得罪人多,这就是我。嘻嘻。

我该对谁诉说我的心情呢??BearBear,我好想你哦!!!

原来我也可以

February 14th, 2009

今天我和他有了一些接触。并没有我想象中那么差。。。原来我也可以的。。

我相信很快,真的很快,我就可以把它物归原主。。。哈哈。。

期待那么一天的来临。我一定可以!!真得好开心哦!

 

<一定可以>

甜的过去
多多回忆
咸咸的泪水
请你别记
再热烈的爱情
也不能征服个性
我们得到了证明
我的坚持
让你委屈
你想要的
我无力
没有对错的问题
只是要想忠于自己勉强
我想我们都不愿意
你一定可以拥有更美好的恋情
他一定懂得去赞美你的聪明
我一定可以过得自在写意
做我最想做的事
我想我们真的都可以
若是想到
通个音讯
我不会尴尬
你别顾虑
曾经那么真心
相信还有默契我们会是好知己
你一定可以遇上最合适的伴侣
他一定比我更加成熟更有趣
我们都可以释怀心存感激
当未来的日子继续
好多事情值得去记忆
我想我们真的都可以
一定可以

Thoughts??

January 11th, 2009

Human beings are really interesting. We are so luckily blessed with brains, but more often than not, we misused it.

You see, the main reason I said so is because majority of the people around me tends to think negatively. You can simply throw a stone a hit a pessimist by my side.

So my question is, what is it that make us people think so much? Aren’t we ourselves the master of our minds? If that is true, then why is it that we are unable to control our own thoughts?

We all know the theory of half-glass full and half-glass empty of water, but are we really practising it? Research has shown that if we think of a positive thought everyday, once we wake up, the day would surely be better. But how many people would do that?

This leads me to another question. Is it really so hard to think of a positive or happy thought to ease your day? Why do we tend to assume the worst out of a situation? Some may argue that the more we hope for the best, the more disappointed we will be. Yes, to a certain extend it is true, but where will we be without hope?

I believe that disappointment will eventually lead to improvement. And this is my positive thought of the day. : )

(This post is specially dedicated to a special friend; if you are reading this, I hope you would try to think positively)