幸福不是必然的。
这一分钟你拥有，下一秒可能你就会失去。
好好珍惜眼前人，不要后悔了才埋怨。。。。
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幸福不是必然的
September 1st, 2010It’s my fault
July 2nd, 2010I was hurt today.
Probably my fault too. My fault for not voicing out my concern, for not taking the opportunity to perform when chances come knocking.
But as usual, what I did is let bygone bygone.
Perhaps I should learn to let go. Not to take failure too personally.
Nevertheless, I still feel sore.
Feels like I am the sore loser. 
And I hate to lose.
被遗忘的孩子
October 31st, 2009被遗忘的感觉会是怎样的呢？？害怕？伤心？还是无奈？
昨晚在我家楼下，我看见一个小男孩补习完过后，正在等他家长来载他。他等了好久好久，都没有人来接他。我想，他们大概是忘了来接他。每当有车过时，他都会用很期待的眼神看。
过了一阵子，我终于忍不住去问了他，你需要打电话回家吗？他摇一摇头，用很害怕的眼神，说了一句“不用”。
当我正要离开的那一刻，我的心酸了一下。难道这个小男孩那么容易被遗忘吗？难道他的家长那么不重视他吗？
没有一个小孩是不值得被爱的。也没有一个小孩愿意被当作不存在的。
我也明白，可能他的家长是有急事，来不及准时接他。
可是，我相信，在那一刻，他可能觉得自己是世界上最可怜的小孩了。
It’s a blessing
October 5th, 2009I have often wondered,why some other people have so many things to blog about, while me myself always have to think of what I should write.
Today, I have finally gotten my answer.
The answer is very simple, actually. The fact that it is so simple that I have taken it for granted.
The reason I do not have anything to blog about is because I am blessed with minimal problems.
I read other people’s blog, and I see relationship problem, financial problem, career problem. Lucky me, I do not need to blog about all these things! 
Chocolate – Yasmin Ahmad
August 19th, 2009Chocolate by Yasmin Ahmad, released on 19 Aug 2009
Potong Saga – Ho Yuhang
August 19th, 2009Potong Saga by Ho Yuhang, released on 17 Aug 2009
Lost
August 13th, 2009I am sad today….
Something unexpected had happened, leaving me feeling confused and out of control.
I am lost…unable to see the light in front.
Where is my road out? I don’t want to be HERE forever.
I need to be in control of my life. I refused to let the situation to control me.
Even though today may not be my day…I have to believe tomorrow will be a better day.
珍惜
July 18th, 2009人，总是要失去了过后才懂得珍惜。
为什么不要在拥有的时候好好把握，好好珍惜？？
等到失去了，不是已经来不及了吗？那时候，再说什么后悔也都没有用了。
人生短短几年，难道就要计较得那么多吗？我们就不能慷慨一点，随便一点吗？
趁现在，大家还在，就应该好好珍惜，应为真的不懂什么时候，一醒来，他们就不在了。所有事情都不一样了。。。
我不要等到那个时候才后悔自己做的不够好，做得不够多。我知道时间真的不多了，时间会过得很快，所以我已经很珍惜现在了。
可是你呢? 你什么时候才会清醒？什么时候才会珍惜？
The Direction
June 20th, 2009Its hard to be an adult. I am sure a lot of grown-ups feel the same way too. We no longer have the simplicity and naivety of children.
The most important thing is, we must have our own direction. No one is going to paint the road for us anymore. And this is actually the loneliest time in our life. Because no one are able to help us, no one can replace the loneliness of having to find our own direction.
So it is crucial that we were brought up being independent. Do not rely on anyone in no matter what we did, otherwise, you would be a crippled bird when the tree get chopped down.
I do have my direction now, but I lost the driver. And in a way, I feel lost too. But I know I must manage without my driver. No one for me to rely on anymore, so would have to rely on myself. I keep on telling myself, I will be fine, I would surely cope. And I really do believe in it.
What doesn’t kill me will only make me stronger.
Just trying to make myself better…
March 28th, 2009Some people are in such a pityful state. At least I am not. I still have all those things that are important to me. I really shouldn’t be thinking too much. Should be thankful and appreciate what I have.
I am still me, after all.
